For the longest time, I have been told that I am the “type of black girl” that white guys would be falling over themselves to date. I would always get defensive. Ever wondered why some white guys, love black women so much? It seems that being a white male and proclaiming your attraction to black women (not only sexually, but. Race Mixing White Liberal Girl Gets Her Head Smashed with Concrete Block at Best Gore. Incredibly Graphic Video, Image and Movie Galleries of Blood. Why White women don't like Asian men - But there's Good News for Asian Guys! I don't date Asian guys. Yep, I'm one of those that date lots and lots of (mostly, but not always) white guys. It's simple: I'm a racist.
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I'm an Asian Woman and I Refuse to Ever Date an Asian Man. I'm an Asian girl. I don't date Asian guys. Yep, I'm one of those that date lots and lots of (mostly, but not always) white guys. Why? It's simple: I'm a racist.
Yep, I said it. And guess what? I’m actually –- shudder to think - - part of a trend. Asians are marrying non- Asians at a rate much higher than any other racial group. This summer Pew reported that 3.
Asian- American brides wedded a non- Asian groom. In an earlier study of the couples who married in 2.
Hispanics did so with someone of a different race or ethnicity. Thirty- one percent of Asians did. This trend has nothing to do with skin color. It has everything to do with patriarchy and cultural sexism and a lifestyle I grew up with and want nothing to do with anymore. It would be easy to say that what I'm looking for culturally doesn't come in an Asian package.
Wesley Yang wrote about it in New York magazine last year and made my heart beat faster with the recognition of his rage against my cultural heritage machine. Fuck Ivy League mania. Fuck deference to authority. Fuck humility and hard work.
Fuck harmonious relations. Fuck sacrificing for the future. Fuck earnest, striving middle- class servility.
This. My mother (born and raised in China) is obsessed with career . It’s like New Age self- help for middle- class strivers. She can't fathom that I'm a freelancer by choice and constantly laments ? If we're being stereotypical about it, well, I like geeky, scrawny and without muscles.
Also, did I mention that Daniel Liu is fucking HOT? And if we're talking about this, plenty of white guys have tiny penises. And I'm sure not all Asian guys have tiny penises. More of me and other . More of us attend those bastions of liberal thought mingling with other young, upwardly mobile types of colleges. More of us are in well- paying jobs, which expose us to people outside our ethnic enclaves. But it's also because we still see ourselves as minorities, immigrants, outsiders.
And we want the same thing new residents of America have wanted for hundreds of years: To be true Americans. Even among American- born people of Asian descent, only 2. I don't have an accent. Aside from my very Midwestern one. My Italian cooking skills are far superior to my Chinese ones.
My Spanish is better than my Chinese. My closet is filled with J. Crew and a healthy dash of Tommy Hilfiger and Ralph Lauren. My pale, white- bread boyfriend jokes that I'm one of the whitest people he's ever met. And that's probably not by accident. I date white men because the term . I date white men because it feels like I'm not ostracizing myself into an Asian ghetto and antiquated ideas of Asian unity.
I still see myself as a minority. And with that, pretty soon comes connotations of . White culture. I realize my thinking is fucked up.
But as long as men tell me over dinner, . Junot Diaz describes it as white supremacy.
The idea that white is still tops, SAT scores, corporate jobs and fancy degrees be damned. In the Boston Review, Diaz says: . There’s that old saying: the devil’s greatest trick is that he convinced people that he doesn’t exist. Well, white supremacy’s greatest trick is that it has convinced people that, if it exists at all, it exists always in other people, never in us.
I'd much rather be swept up into that beautiful land of racially ambiguous beauties. But for now, I will not and will never date one of my.